Have you ever heard that voice in your head wondering what’s wrong with you, looking at the mirror disappointed while thinking: “I thought I would have made it by now”?
Let me remind you. Nothing is wrong with you. Trust me. What is wrong is the question. And the focus.
If you search in the wrong place you find the wrong things, if anything. Looking outwards only gives us resentment, judgment, void, worthlessness and the feeling of being lost.
I was there too.
And it was only when I started to look inwards and tune in the attention button towards my needs, my core beliefs, my values, my behaviours, my childhood wounds, my expectations, and my patterns, that all began to make more sense. The puzzle of what was wrong with me started to take shape. Nothing was wrong with me. I was just looking in the wrong place, asking the wrong questions.
The missing piece was Awareness. And that was just the beginning! Doing the inner work isn’t an overnight task, it’s a lifestyle that you embrace as your life depends on it. You take ownership of your past and present being, you hold yourself accountable, you nurture your inner child to heal, and you are determined to not have it that way anymore.
I didn’t do it alone… not gonna lie here. Still today I need support and I find it with my coaches. I’m still learning, healing and evolving. And it’s Okay to need help. No shame in that. In fact, it’s a brave and loving act towards ourselves, to rely on someone who sheds light in our shadows, so we can see better and take action.
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