As a consequence, you might experience overwhelming challenges when:

• Your relationship is new and you’re afraid of messing it up because of your experience.
• You are not feeling listened to or appreciated by your partner.
• You argue too much and often for insignificant issues.
• You feel like your partner doesn’t understand you.
• Communication is often flooded with misunderstandings. 
• You’re missing connection and physical intimacy with your partner.
• One of you is lacking of libido so sexual intimacy is very seldom or none at all.
• One of you seems to be too sensitive or too blunt so the communication is difficult. 
• You want to spark your sex life to rekindle desire and sexual intimacy. 
• You clash often due to your differences in culture and race.
• You (or your partner) are going through a hard time and it’s affecting the relationship.
• The trust has been compromised because one of you is having or had an affair.
• You have become new parents and the relationship is suffering with the new little member of the family.
• You feel alone in your relationship as you find it difficult to express your emotions and thoughts. 
• Your relationship is ending and you want to uncouple with the least turmoil possible.

The list can continue but, if any of the above-mentioned situations ring a bell for you, chances are that you will benefit from a supportive, neutral outsider who can hold a safe space for you and your partner to reconnect and better understand one another.